Tahan(an)

TAHAN

Wipe your tears and write to until your heart's content! Write about anything! Your worries, problems, daily challenges, literally anything! We, as well as the users of Tahan(an) will be here to listen.

ENTRY FROM ANON (C/18)

I believe if my parents and I took our time and collected ourselves first before confronting and talking about the situation then it would lead to more healthy and fulfilling compromise.

ENTRY FROM ANON (P/43)

May mga parents din kasing walang trust or walang tiwala kasi sa mga anak. Siguro may mga instances na nagkaroon sila ng ganong situation, kaya hindi na bumalik din yung trust.

ENTRY FROM ANON (P/36)

Kapag masyadong mahigpit ka, pwede sa sobrang sakal, magkaano yung bata, parang magrebelde! Kapag naman sobrang maluwag, baka naman mawala na yung respeto. Kaya parang gitna lang, depende sa sitwasyon.

ENTRY FROM ANON (C/16)

If I were to be able to let them know (let them see) that I can understand their effort, making our future better by working hard at their jobs. But also even if they are working hard at their jobs, it’s also important for the family to communicate with one another.

ENTRY FROM ANON (C/16)

I am stuck in this loop of continuously pleasing my parents and also being a good child to them and hoping not to commit any problems because of course there’s this perspective of theirs of me being the youngest meaning I am the most chaotic which really really affects my mindset on how I see things.

ENTRY FROM ANON (P/60)

Ang prinsipyo ko, hindi niyo responsibility pagastusan kami pagtumanda kami. Pero kung kayo naman ay tatanaw ng utang na loob, e blessing na yun sa amin.

MONTHLY CHALLENGES

Ready to push yourself for the betterment of your relationship?
Try these challenges, it changes every month!

CHALLENGE 1

Ask your parent or child about their day!

CHALLENGE 2

Embrace your parent or child!

CHALLENGE 3

Prepare a meal for them!

CHALLENGE 4

Give them something nice - even words of affirmation will do!